Marital Relationships

There was a time in India when the family courts were mostly empty all the year round. But today the family courts are the most occupied whole  year why would that be? what changed from to now ? Is it the people ? or is it the people's attitude towards life?Why are the family or marital relations so weak today? Today everybody are on fast paced, running life. They get married , the girl has her own ego as well as the guy. They are married to compromise with each others life and adapt themselves to each but the blooming software, call centre industry makes it very difficult for the two people involved in the relationship to spend time with each other or to understand each other. Every body is busy in their own lives. The words " Sacrifice" , "compromise" ,"selfless unconditional love" has become scarce. There comes a point where either of the partner or both think they deserve something more beautiful in their lives, they are not ready to save the relationship they have currently may be because of their egos or because of the fact that they are just done and move on ; it just becomes so easy for one to do that. The very next step is move to family court to get divorced. Girls are presumed to be the ones who should be compromising, sacrificing and attempting to save the relationships. But why this double strandedness. When we are living the male dominant society why can't a man be expected to do all the compromises, sacrifices after all you are the one who is dominant. One assumption shouldn't change though "whoever wins in the court will be a loser; whoever lost will be deadbeat".